Counselling
Empower yourself & break free from people pleasing
with compassionate, expert counselling
Feeling frustrated, lost, burnt out?
There is another way
Do you struggle to say no? Do you put everyone else first then feel resentful and neglected? Are you exhausted? Are you beginning to wonder who you are and what you need?
If you’re nodding your head, you may be a people pleaser. As a recovering people pleaser, I understand how much pressure you’re putting yourself under day in day out, trying to be everything to everyone. It’s exhausting! You end up losing yourself and there’s no space for you to care for yourself or even know what your needs are.
Have you noticed you…
- Obsess about getting everything ‘just right’
- Constantly criticise yourself
- Feel pressured to support others
- Worry about being judged or letting others down
- Fear confrontation and do anything to avoid it
- Feel like no one notices or cares for you
- Feel burnt out from never giving yourself a break
- Feel sad, lonely and frustrated
- Don’t feel you deserve success or happiness
I have wonderful news for you. You don’t need to feel like this forever!
People Pleasing
and how I can help
Here's how counselling can
help you rediscover you
I’ve helped many women break the cycle of people pleasing and start understanding and prioritising their needs.
By working together, we can:
- Discover the origins of your people pleasing
- Notice your patterns and understand their impact
- Manage unhealthy behaviours
- Get back in touch with your needs
- Develop boundaries
- Honour your values
- Heal your inner child
- Discover your true, authentic self
General Counselling
At the Inspired Mind, Kirrilly specialises in providing empathetic and effective counselling tailored specifically for women. Whether you are navigating life’s challenges, seeking personal growth, or dealing with specific issues such as stress, anxiety, or relationship concerns, our dedicated approach focuses on empowering you to find clarity, build resilience, and achieve your personal goals.
Her holistic and client-centered methods ensure that every session is a safe space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings without judgment. With a deep understanding of the unique experiences and pressures faced by women, Kirrilly is committed to supporting you on your journey to emotional well-being and personal empowerment. Reach out today to begin your path to a healthier, more fulfilling life.
Kirrilly Falivene
Counsellor & Professional Trainer
Counselling for women who want to overcome people pleasing & professional training in leadership and empathetic communication
Give yourself permission
to heal & grow
Have you read our Success Stories?
Everyone has the capacity to grow, we just need an environment where someone believes & inspires us. Find out how Kirrilly’s approach has helped her clients.
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